22, of Sinton, Texas; assigned to 3rd Battalion, 4th Marines, 1st Marine Division, I Marine Expeditionary Force, Twentynine Palms, Calif.; died June 28 in Helmand province, Afghanistan, while conducting combat operations.
To honor Cpl Mark Raymond Goyet,Ā his mother, Martha Curran Goyet retrieved this stone from her parentās homestead in Westbrook, Maine.
Martha Goyet describes that stone and tells us about her son ā
āThe stone came from my parents’ property in Westbrook, Maine.Ā They still live on the family land that dates back to 1775.Ā We thought it was important that the rock came from somewhere that he would have played from the time he was a child. The night before the Run for the Fallen Maine, it was starting to get dark, and we still hadn’t been out to look for the stone.Ā I asked if we could please all go out in the woods before it got dark.Ā I had planned on taking one from the stone wall that Mark used to run along.Ā Well, my Mom, Ray, daughter Jenna and granddaughter Mia hiked out into the woods, and right before the stone wall, was this tall pile of rocks. I asked my mother about the pile and she said that was from years of my Dad stacking them, as he found rocks in the field when he mowed, he would throw them on this pile.Ā I looked down and saw the PERFECT rock for Mark.Ā It was smooth and heavy, and called out to us!ā
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I am a member of Patriot Riders of America Maine Chapter 1 and participated in the Summit Project. I had the honor of transporting Mark’s stone part of the way from Portland to Baxter State Park. I don’t have the words to adequately describe what a huge privilege it was. I also had the pleasure of meeting and talking with Mark’s uncle Ray at the start of the ride at the Elks Club in Portland. Please know that Cpl Mark R. Goyet will always be remembered and honored.
5/26/2014
To the family and loved ones of Mark Goyet on this Memorial Day,
I want to begin by thanking you for the opportunity to carry Markās stone and his story with me throughout these past few months. It has been an absolute honor and a privilege to be able to pay my respects to not only the sacrifices he has made, but the impact that he has made in the lives of those surrounding him. The weight of this stone will never compare to the weight his family and friends carry forth with them throughout every moment of their lives. I hope what I am able to share with you about this past weekend will help lift some of this weight from your shoulders and illustrate just how much appreciation this great state has for the legacy which your son, grandson, brother, nephew, uncle, and friend left for us to remember him by.
I hold many high expectations for everything which surround me and I am able to be a part of. This being said, The Summit Project far surpassed any expectations which I could have ever possibly imagined. As I drove into Baxter State Park through the town of Millinocket, every sign along the roadway gave light to the incredible appreciation and support this state has for not only this project, but for the fallen heroes in which it honors. Each of them spoke the same message:
āWe welcome The Summit Project into our home! We will never forget!ā
As the stones were escorted by police and carried by the Patriot Riders across the state of Maine, the communities lined the streets waiting for the opportunity to pay their respects as they passed; it was through everyoneās sincere and genuine display of love and appreciation for great men such as Mark that we can truly understand the impact and everlasting impression he has made upon both our great state and our nation.
As I climbed to the top of The Owl, I found myself not thinking about the sacrifices Mark had made to this great nation, or even about the sacrifices each of you surely face every day of your lives. Instead, I thought back to the stories which Jenna told me about her favorite memories of Mark. I thought about how I wish I would have had the chance to know him personally, and how Iām sure he wouldāve been a great friend seeing his personality and realizing how much we actually had in common. As I stood on top of that mountain, I realized that if Mark had the opportunity to be here today, Iām sure he would have been climbing this mountain with us paying tribute to the sacrifices shouldered by the great men of our nation.
To make this climb even more significant, Dave asked if I would be willing to carry the American flag with me to the summit in my pack. I told him it would be my honor. I mention this so you know that not only did Mark join me in my climb to the summit of The Owl, but that his country remained at his side for the duration of this climb.
Martha and Ray, I could never imagine taking on the burdens that you endure each and every day. I hope if there is anything I could ever do for you that you wouldnāt hesitate to ask. I wish I had the opportunity to give you each a great big hug and tell you personally how very grateful I am that you have allowed me into such a sacred part of your lives to carry forth your sonās memories. I will forever hold this experience very close to my heart, along with all experiences yet to come. I will continue to carry forth Markās stone and his story for as long as you would allow me to.
Jenna, I want to truly thank you for allowing me to enter such a personal place within your life. The stories you shared with me were what gives this project the meaning which brought me here in the beginning. Every time I pass anyone wearing a Red Sox hat or clothing or anything Boston, I see Mark dressed in his Red Sox attire at the LA stadium watching the Dodgers/Giants game on opening day. I cherish our conversations deeply and hope to continue our conversations long into the future.
Martha and Ray, I look forward to seeing you at the next event this fall at Acadia National Park if you are able to make it. Jenna, I hope to meet you and your husband at the Run for the Fallen later this year. For the rest of the family, I look forward to speaking with each of you and meeting you in the near future as well. If there is anything I could ever do for any of you, please do not hesitate to ask.
Maineās heroes will never be forgotten. This past weekend was proof positive that Mark is and will forever be in our hearts, our prayers, and our minds. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to continue to share his story with the world. I hope to see you all soon!
Semper Memento,
Greg Johnson
thank you for carrying Mark’s stone. Our Maine Fallen are Not Forgotten!
To the family of Cpl Mark Goyet,
It was with great honor and respect that I carried the Stone of your loved one this past weekend for our GORUCK challenge. This was the second event that I have had the pleasure of being a part of a team carrying Stones from TSP, and with each even I learn more of the great sacrifices the young men and women of Maine have made for this country. I am proud to carry their memories, proud of their service to our country, and thankful for you to give us the opportunity to carry them with us. His accomplishments as a man with great honor will not be forgotten, and for paying the ultimate sacrifice to his Country, our freedom, we carry his memory and pay the greatest respects.
After learning more about Mark, his father, and his grandfathers, it’s easy to understand the strong personal ties he felt to fighting for this country, when he asked to transfer to the unit heading for Afghanistan. His pride in his military background shone through in his devotion, there are no words to describe how thankful I am to have carried his Stone with us through safer, friendlier grounds, and pay our respects to him.
His time in Maine I know he enjoyed, and on a cool summer night we carried his memory proudly with us as we completed our GORUCK challenge. I am thankful for his serive to us all, and honored to have had him in our presence for this event and hopefully more to come.
Sincerely,
Susan Syska-Bogart
This was my second trek with The Summit Project, although for this trip I had the privilege of leading Team Blackwood up the South Ridge Trail to the top of Cadillac Mountain. When I was first asked to lead this team, I was honored to be entrusted with the responsibility of guiding and mentoring both first-time and veteran TSP hikers throughout the many months leading up to our main event. As we began to formulate as a team, I wanted nothing more than to be able to give this select group of individuals one of the greatest experiences of their lifetimes. Instead, they were able to give me the greatest experience of mine.
As we conversed, I began to understand the dedication and conviction that each member had toward giving pieces of themselves to the veteran community. Many of my teammates joined me at the Run For The Fallen, most all of them were involved in other events or projects of their own. My desire was to fuel everyoneās passion and drive them forward toward our main event. Instead, they were the ones who ultimately fueled my own.
As time progressed, we began coming together as something more than just a team; we came together as a family. We held fundraiser events and through everyoneās own personal commitments and busy schedules, the turnout for this event was absolutely amazing. We realized that strength came to us as we pooled our efforts together collectively. Each of us were strong as individuals, but together we were stronger.
As the weekend of the climb finally came upon us, we were fired up and ready to go! I arrived at Acadia National Park on Friday afternoon and the scenery was something from a postcard. The skies were blue, the temperature was warm, and the foliage was absolutely astounding; the weather could not have been more perfect for us to host such an event! Though when I woke up the following morning, the day could not have been more different. The temperatures had dropped down considerably, the fog had closed in upon us, the wind was biting against our skin, and storm clouds were looming over our heads letting go periods of short showers throughout the duration of our climb. As we climbed higher, the inclement weather grew more and more antagonizing and the slick rocks began to wear on our team. Climbers lost their footing and went down quite often, though with every slip, fall, and slide, there was an outstretched hand helping them back up and pushing us onward. It was during these moments that I remember thinking to myself how fitting this was to all that we had come here to do.
Not every day is a beautiful day. Not every day can we expect to wake up and be blessed with blue skies and sunshine. We will be challenged and we will be challenged often. It is in the face of these challenges that it is most important we pull together as family and continue to trek on. As we climbed higher and higher and the weather continued to test our wills, I can proudly say that as one team, never for a moment did we entertain the thought of slowing down. It was as one family that we finally reached the summit.
As we stood at the top, not a single person complained about the bitter cold, about the frigid winds, or the slick and soaked clothing which clung to us all. We huddled together and one by one shared the stories of those whose stones we had carried. And everyone listened intently as each person spoke of this experience. I shared with this team much of what I have discussed here with you now. This incredible bond we share becomes significantly more vital as our challenges become greater and more difficult to face. We cannot always face them on our own, but we donāt need to. The weight we carry can be shared amongst us all.
If by bearing the weight of these stones for the duration of this climb can in any way help lift the weight from the shoulders of our surviving families, then all the effort we have given to reach this moment has been paid for a thousand time over. I am extremely grateful for the opportunity to stand shoulder to shoulder with my teammates, and alongside everyone who helped us carry forth the memories of our fallen heroes. It is a privilege and an honor to be able to stand here today and tell gold star families everywhere that the sacrifices and the stories behind their loved ones lost will forever live on in each and every one of us.
Thank you for this opportunity to be here today. This moment I will never forget.
Greg Johnson
TSP Team Lead
Team Blackwood
TSP at ANP 2014
Thank you Greg!!!!
To the Family of Marine Cpl. Mark R. Goyet,
My name is Dylan Harris and it was an amazing honor to hike with the stone of your loved one, Mark Goyet. It was an honor to be the team lead with Markās memorial stone in my backpack. The weight was an honor to feel and carry with each step that I took on the journey up the Owl with the Summit Project.
I was so blessed to get the letter from you, Martha. It made me cycle through so many emotions. It made me get to know what kind of person Mark was. Thatās what I enjoy most about being a part of the Summit Project, talking to people about the person that my brother was. So although I was never able to respond to your email because I did not know what to say back, I really appreciated it and it moved me. It let me know that not carrying my brotherās stone for this memorial hike was the right choice for me.
This is now my fourth Summit Project hike. I first got involved with the project through my brother, carrying his memorial stone on the first hike last Memorial Day. It might brighten your day a little to know that Mark was not alone in my pack, I was also honored and blessed to be able to hike with Army Sgt. Edmond W. McDonaldās memorial stone. It was worth every step and all the extra weight to carrying both memorial stones and both stories with me this year.
Back to the letter, I mentioned this on the summit of the Owl, Major Dave seems to have an uncanny ability to pair up hikers with their memorial stones. I went through the letter thinking about how much I felt like you were mentioning things about me. Markās huge smile, his bear hugs, him playing sports, him being a āBleacher Creature,ā all similar traits that I feel like I possess. I like to give my students at the school I work at smiles all day long, Iām a big fan of hugs, sports are my life (playing them, teaching them, coaching them, and watching them!), and I am also a huge sports fan whether it be my own players or the ones on TV. It was an amazing feeling knowing that me and Mark had some similarities.
I know each family heals differently, and each family member in the family has their own way of healing. Being a part of the Summit Project is my way of healing. I put all of my heart into the hikes, and I have so much pride seeing everyone getting involved with the Project. I hope by carrying your Loved Oneās memorial stone that it helps with your healing. I hope you take pride in everything your loved one has done.
Again, I was so honored and blessed to be able to hike the Owl with Markās memorial stone. I hope to be able to be blessed enough to meet his family, especially his mother Martha, (thank you for trip into Markās life), and also his cousin Lauryn whom Iāve had the privilege to talk to some as well. But until then, I hope that I fulfilled the TSP mission and helped Markās family honor him.
With all my heart,
Gold Star Brother,
Dylan Harris
Beautiful Dyl!
Hello, My Name Is Drew Morris,17,
It Was My Honor To Carry The Stone Of USMC
Corporal Mark R. Goyet To The Top Of Mtn Bigelow on 5/29/15. It Was Amazing To Lean As Mush As I Possible Could About Him. By What I Learned Mark Was An Amazing Guy. In The Future I Hope To One Day Learn More About Him. May He Rest In Piece.
On 10 Sept 2015, Kirsten White wrote —
On September 4, 2014, I had the honor of carrying Cpl Mark Goyetās stone on a tribute hike up Old Speck Mountain in Newry, Maine. My sister, brother-in-law, and 2-year-old niece rounded out our team, carrying the stones of two other fallen Maine heroes.
I was honored that Markās mother Martha shared with me some stories about Mark before I picked up his stone. Through our correspondence, I learned that Mark was fun-loving, athletic, kind, a loving and doting uncle to his nieces and nephews, and a loyal and generous friend. But what struck me most is his sense of service-over-self ā something that started long before he entered the Marine Corps. Iāve found that this is characteristic is common among almost all of those who have volunteered to serve our country. For Mark, it was the fabric of his life ā the core of his person. He was always helping friends and doing anything he could to make life easier for the people around him. His family is still learning about his many acts of kindness that touched so many people Mark encountered in his too-short life. I will always be grateful to Martha for sharing those special memories with me.
As we hiked up Old Speck, my family and I shared stories of the fallen heroes we had gotten to know over the course of the prior week; I had begun to think of them as āthe brothers,ā as I carefully transported them around the state. When I talked about Mark, I told stories of him taking in a friend who needed a place to stay, offering car rides to people, and lending a hand to just about anyone who needed it. We laughed as I shared the time Martha asked her son to take care of a tricky household task, and she had come home from work to find that he had made a little too much fun out of the mission. He hadnāt quite accomplished what she had asked for, but he gave his mother belly laughs for years.
The first portion of the hike is steep and rocky, following switchbacks along a roaring waterfall. We got quiet as we grew fatigued traversing the boulders and large tree routes on the trail. I imagined Mark telling me to not look up at what lay ahead and how far we had to go, but instead to concentrate on putting one foot in front of the other. That became my hiking cadence, and the more I āheardā him in my ear, the more his stone felt less like weight and more like the gentle push I needed, encouraging me with every step.
I like to think that during the 48 hours I cared for Markās stone, some of his goodness rubbed off on me, and I will continue to strive to live a life worthy of his sacrifice. I still hold Markās memory close, and in the weeks since our tribute hike, I have thought of him often. Now and then, I have found myself in a position to lend a hand to a stranger, and Iāve tried to respond in the way I imagine Mark would have if he were in my position. I hope it is of some comfort to Martha and the rest of Markās family that he continues to inspire acts of kindness.
Thank you to Martha and the rest of Markās family for allowing me to honor Markās memory in this special way. As much as I learned about your amazing son, brother, and uncle, I have marveled at your strength. I will never forget Mark. That is a promise.
Hello my name is Janet and this past weekend I had the privilege and honor to carry the stone of your Fallen loved one as we hiked Bradbury Mtn on a picture perfect sunny Saturday morning. This was my first time participating in an event for TSP. This was a huge honor for me to carry Mark’s stone. I want to thank him and you for the sacrifice he made for his country, I am so proud to have had the privilege to bring him with me on this hike. We too have a son who has and does serve his country today. We feel blessed that he is still with us and because he is I feel more compelled to try to give back and honor each and every person and family that has made the ultimate sacrifice. I hope to have more opportunities to carry the stone of one of our fallen heroes and hope someday to get to know your loved one.
David J. Cote wrote —
Dear Martha ā
I was humbled, honored, proud and privileged to carry Markās story and stone through the 40th Marine Corps Marathon this year. As I reflect on this entire event, I first think about how you retrieved the stone from Westbrook, Maine, and the weekend I met you. I think about your family farm that dates back to 1775, the year that the USMC was founded in Tunās Tavern in Philadelphia, PA and the year prior to our nationās founding. I think about how carefully you must have worked to unearth and retrieve this very stone. I was touching a memory that you also touched. I felt connected to you and to Mark in this way. Mark was going to help me get through 26.2 miles in our nationās capitol, and smile the entire way through ā the same smile that you wear on your face today.
Our nationās capital! What a special, symbolic and meaningful place to honor Mark. So many memorials and monuments to commemorate important achievements in our countryās history, and I felt so special to have Markās living memorial as I achieved new milestones with every mile we completed. Thousands of Americans cheering us on, standing before these historical markers, traveling from afar to give us encouragement, excitement, strength and inspiration.
This trip to DC was also special for me, and particularly the MCM, because it was my first trip back to my former home after transitioning out of the USMC. I really enjoyed my tour of duty in DC, new friends, active lifestyle, learning new things and my personal and professional growth opportunities. I felt so honored to share this first visit back with Mark.
One of my first impressions during the MCM course was the soft rain prior to the start. As we prepared for the start, I heard the announcement for the National Anthem, and I proudly carried Mark and as I stood at the position of attention, I gazed ahead and saw a Marine in uniform saluting the flag. He was directly in my line of sight and I thought about our shared brotherhood as Marines, and the journey I was about to start. I stood just as proud, and choking back tears, I reciting our pledge and prepared for the journey ahead.
A moment later, a section V-22 Ospreys flew overhead, we took one picture as a team, we shed some layers and just like that, we were off. My next memory was having the honor to carry our American Flag over the Francis Scott Key Bridge into Georgetown. We had just finished the first segment of the race and, as we left Arlington, and entered DC for the first time, I was so proud to carry our nationās colors into our nationās capital. Another one of my favorite memories, and one that in the moment filled me with overwhelming emotion, was running past the Lincoln Memorial steps on Ohio drive and just as we passed, the Marine Band played the Marine Corps Hymn. These memories continued all through the race Martha. At every mile, at every monument, with the kindest and most supportive people you would ever meet.
We met many competitors with physical disabilities of their own ā single and double amputees, and wheelchair racers, all of whom inspired me to keep pushing, to keep charging. I realized that they had struggles, perhaps wishing that they had more mobility, range of motion, and less discomfort with prosthetics. Then I thought about their strength and courage in the face of their disabilities and setbacks. I felt inspired and encouraged. If they could press on, so could I. I know something else that kept me going ā my Red Sox hat because it made me think of Mark and his love for the Sox. I imagined his big grin and how he wouldn’t ever complain about a situation. He would smile and try to find the positives in any situation. I carried that spirit as we met spectators at every mile and shared the stories and stones of our heroes.
That is the lesson from Cpl Mark Goyet to me that day. Keep persevering, DO NOT give up, stay the course and keep a great attitude. Use our big smiles to help others smile and be confident in ourselves and in our future.
When we finished the race Martha, we each were awarded our finishers medal by a Marine First Lieutenant who was a student at The Basic School in Quantico. I thought about them, how I was in their shoes once, and how they are the future of the Marine Corps. I thought about how this new generation will learn to lead Marines like your son, and countless other sons and daughters of America. It is a tremendous responsibility, particularly when going into harmās way.
I thank Mark for challenging me on this trek, for testing my focus and fortitude and I thank you Martha for your support to TSP and your unyielding backing for the work we do.
Mark will never be forgotten. I was so proud to carry his stone for over 26 miles in our nationās capital and then bring it back to Maine ā all with a smile on my face.
To the family of CPL Mark R. Goyet
I am honored that I got to hike the Summit Project with CPL Mark Goyetās stone on my back. I want to thank the family of Mark, one for raising such a compassionate, brave, strong man, and two I want to personally thank him for the sacrifices heās made by being in war and doing everything he could do, to save our country. For him I know it must have been hard to travel thousands of miles away to a place that most people wouldnāt go.
As I hiked up the mountain many thoughts were going through my head. The thought that really got to me was just thinking about how many sacrifices every soldier must make to be at war. The family also must make many sacrifices for their soldier and it can deeply impact them. I appreciate the courage you have and the sacrifices you made to allow your son to follow his dreams of serving his country. To me, I always knew what war was like in the perspective of History class, but I never really thought about the personal level of having a family member at war. Reading Markās story and then hiking up the mountain with his symbol really hit me hard and made me realize the affects of war.
Reading about how you chose which rock you wanted to symbolize your son was beyond amazing. I loved how you incorporated where he used to play and how that had a huge impact on where and which rock you chose. Just being able to look down and see the rock that would perfectly symbolize your son was such a wonderful thing. I loved how you said it was smooth and heavy and it just simply called out to you guys. I am beyond grateful I got to read how you found the perfect rock for Mark.
Lastly I just want to thank you personally for raising such an incredible human being, and giving me the opportunity to get to know Mark. He left behind such a loving, caring family at such a young age, and for that I hope for the best for everyone in your family and his friends. My prayers are with you everyday and I couldn’t be more thankful for having such a strong individual to serve our country.
Thank you for your sonās service.
Sincerely, Haley Frohlich
Dear Martha Goyet and Family,
Carrying Mark’s stone to the top of Bradbury Mountain was such a pleasure. It was amazing to learn about what he did and how he helped his country in an astounding way. I loved seeing a majority of my Junior class come together and show all of their love and respect for the fallen soldiers. I carried this stone for Mark Goyet and all of the other soldiers we have unfortunately lost in battle.
When I first heard of this field trip my Junior class would be participating in, I was really glad that we were doing something for such a good cause. Doing things like this makes me feel very fortunate for what I have and glad that I’m participating in a respectful event. We talked about this trip in History and English class, and we did research on our assigned soldier. Unfortunately, not much information about Mark was shared, but my group worked with what we had and we put together a short speech about him that we could share with our classmates at the top of the mountain. Preparing for the trip made me feel sad for all of the soldiers we have lost, but it also made me feel so thankful for what I have. I learned a lot of valuable information while doing The Summit Project.
When we arrived at Bradbury Mountain, I was really looking forward to hiking to mountain, especially because it is for such a good cause. When my group got our rock, it was a special moment. Most of what was written about Mark was where his stone was from. It is clearly a very special stone to your family, so holding it was a memorable moment for me. I made sure the person carrying the stone took good care of it, because I can understand how this is so important to you and Mark. Once we got to the top of the mountain, we all formed a circle and we were told to speak when we felt comfortable. I ended up going first, so I placed the stone onto a soldier’s jacket on the ground and said a few words about Mark. My speech talked about where the stone came from, and a little history about the area it was from. I talked about when and how mark passed away, and how carrying the stone was such an honor. I ended my speech by saying my thoughts are with his family, and that I thank him for his service. This was an emotional moment for me because I could really feel for your family and friends. My grandfather was in the service when he was young. I don’t know much about it because it was before I was born, but he was in my mind during this time as well. Hearing everyone talk about their soldiers made me feel a couple of different emotions. I was overjoyed that my class could come together and say such kind words, and I was also quite saddened because of all the important people we have lost far too early in our world and in Maine alone. Speaking about Mark was such an honor and I will forever hold that memory in my heart.
After The Summit Project, I have realized how much love these soldiers put into their own country. The most thoughtful and amazing people decided to defend the rest of us, and some ended up losing their lives because of it. I shared great stories about this project with my family because it is definitely a moment that I will remember for the rest of my life. I believe that moments like this should be shared and remembered forever. I thank all soldiers for their courage and perseverance. They set a great example for the rest of us. My thoughts are forever with Mark and the rest of the fallen soldiers and their families.
Sincerely,
Lily Russell
Edward Little High School Junior
To the family of Mark R. Goyet
Recently I had the privilege to carry Mark’s stone up Bradbury mountain. During the hike, I thought about the sacrifice that Mark and every other soldier past and present have made putting their life on the line for their country. The bravery it takes to join the fight makes Mark my personal hero for the bravery and courage it takes to put your life on the line in order to secure a better life for your loved ones and all the citizens in the United States. These soldiers ultimately make the ultimate sacrifice in order to defend what they believe in and that truly makes them heroes in my eyes. At the top of the mountain we spoke about how personal the rock was to his family and what it meant to them. I think that it is cool to learn about where the rocks come from and what they mean to the soldier and their family and how meaningful it is to their family.
Mark is remembered in the hearts of his family and those who have the privilege of carrying his rock up a mountain. I hope that some day I have the bravery to defend what I believe in just like Mark did.
Sincerely,
Spencer Harrington
Dear family and friends of Mark Goyet,
I was honored to carry the rock of CPL Mark R. Goyet while recently participating in the Summit Project. It was a great experience getting to learn about your son who is a hero to everyone that knows him. He gave the ultimate sacrifice for the protection of our country. His rock is more than a piece of this Earth. It is a memory for you, and everyone that Mark knew.
I could walk Bradbury mountain a thousand times, and it would never be enough to repay the brave men, and women for their sacrifices. People pass, soldiers are remembered, and heroes are never forgotten. Life is a gift, and mine is able to be liven in peace, because of people like your son. So I thank you, and I thank your son, for everything he has done, and he will always be remembered, and never forgotten.
Sincerely,
Mason Brushwein
Mr and Mrs Goyet, my son Chris Verlander was in the company of your son Mark on that fateful day in Afghanistan. Chris was a machine gunner in Mark’s unit. That tragic event and loss haunt him to this day. I attended the wreath laying ceremony today at the Richmond National Cemetery as part of the Wreaths Across America program. Wreaths are placed on fallen soldier’s graves in nationsl cemeteries all across the country. Prior to today’s event I sponsored two wreaths, one in your son Mark’s memory and one in my son Chris’s honor. It was a beautiful ceremony. I placed a wreath on two unknown soldier’s graves. Your son’s sacrifice was not in vain and he will never be forgotten. My son is scarred to this day from the awful event in which your son was lost. May peace be with you and your family.
Your son was a great man. I haven’t talked to you before but I was doc Emmerling. I was with Mark and your son corpsman. I was in-between both Mark and your son that terrible day we were attacked. Your son did great things in the face of danger that probably helped save my life. I’m grateful for that sir. I hope he is doing well.
I was very honored to carry the stone in the name of Mark Goyet. Also when I was on the walk and stone became heavy, I just remembered why I was there and why I was a part of the Summit Project. When we were at the sharing circle I was proud of everyone while they were reading a little about each fallen solider. It was great to learn more about Mark but it was also great to learn something about each one of the soldiers that day.
To the Family of Corporal Mark Goyet-
I was honored to carry Cpl Goyetās stone during the Baxter State Park hike on 29 May, 2016. The opportunity to carry a stone that bears the name of a Warrior like Mark was a distinct privilege for me, and the camaraderie, connections, challanges and honor that I felt throughout the experience truly were a blessing for me, and I hope honored Markās memory.
Though I was never fortunate enough to meet Mark, having learned about him, I do feel that we shared some connections. I have spent plenty of time aboard the Marine Corps Air Ground Combat Center in Twentynine Palms CA where Mark was stationed with 3/4. We were both deployed to Helmand Province, Afghanistan at the same time when Mark was with 3/4 and I was in Northern Marjah with 2/8 out of Camp Lejeune, NC. That spring and summer were particularly dangerous and active in the Helmand River Valley, and I know that Markās unit not only saw some significant action against the enemy, but also showed incredible compassion and courage in protecting and assisting the locals who lived in that area. Though our paths never crossed, I did feel this connection of patrolling, fighting and serving just miles away from Mark at the same time as I conducted the hike up the Owl.
The hike was challenging, and the weather-especially the wind and rain-added a sense of adversity to the groupās hike. Despite this, Team Red had an outstanding chemistry, and we all heard and relayed numerous stories about the Warriors whose stones we were carrying. Our summit ceremony was particularly moving, as the amount of compassion, honor and respect that the hikers had for the fallen that we were remembering was palpable, and made the event that much more special. Knowing what I do about Mark, the challenges and camaraderie of that day would have been very important to him as well.
As this was my first Summit Project event, I did not know hardly anyone when I arrived. When people became aware that I was carrying Markās stone however, I had numerous people come up to me and introduce themselves, and then proceed to tell me about Mark, or how they knew his story or how great of a man that he was. These actions demonstrate the character and impact that Mark had, and most importantly, that his story is not over as it continues to inspire others.
I look forward to meeting you at a future Summit Project event and would be very honored to hear some of your stories about Mark. From everything that I have heard about him, he was driven by duty to others, loyalty to his brother Marines and very fondly remembered. It was a complete privilege to be entrusted with his stone for this hike, and I am very fortunate to have had this opportunity.
Semper Fidelis
Adam Sacchetti
To the friends and family of Mark,
Today Greg Johnson and I hiked up Table Rock Mountain in Maine with 44 children who all have a parent or sibling currently serving in the military. They carried 27 stones up the mountain today. Here is a letter from the campers that had the honor of carrying your hero.
“Today I started the hike with a stone and climbed down carrying a friend. I feel like I know Mark now. This was truly a humbling experience and I am going to participate in the Summit Project again!
Love,
Paxton”
To the family and friends of Mark,
Today Angel Matson and I hiked up Table Rock Mountain in Maine with 30 children who all have a parent or sibling currently serving in the military. They carried 24 stones up the mountain today. Here is a letter from the campers that had the honor of carrying your hero.
“I was lucky enough to get to hike with Marine Cpl. Mark Goyet. I thought that it was such a great experience. Mark seems like such a great guy.
Love, Haylee”
For Mark’s Loved Ones:
I had the honor of having Mark’s hero stone travel with me for a week, along with the stone of Army Sgt 1st Class Jonathan Lowery. Since I returned the stones to The Summit Project, I have been struggling for the words that would give justice to their sacrifice and the impact I felt by having them with me. The connection that comes from carrying the stone is something that cannot be described in words. Something happens in my heart , a better understanding of life, of sacrifice, duty, family and of love every time I carry a stone.
While I had the care of these stones, I brought them to work with me each day and was able to talk about Mark and Jonathan and share their heroic stories with many people. I also went on a road trip to New York for a family gathering. We stopped in Stockbridge Mass and hiked up to Laura’s Ladder with the stones. I had Mark’s stone in my pack. I wore a Red Sox shirt in his honor:) Throughout the week and this hike, I thought of Mark’s family and the way that they live their life in his honor. I thought about Mark’s bravery and his love for our country that led him to join our military. His beautiful smile continues to fill my heart every day. He will never be forgotten.
Thank you, Debra!!! I am reading many of these testimonies for the first time, and the tears are flowing! Mark’s spirit is touching as many people after his death as it did when he was alive!
On 14 Oct 2016, Martha Goyet wrote:
When I first learned that I was required to write a letter of the Marine’s stone I carried, to the family…I thought, HA, that should be easy, as I am his MOTHER! But let me tell you, the hike up Cadillac Mountain changed me, in so many ways. And it would be a different “easy” to talk to Mark’s family. I have never been so humbled by anything, as that hike. I like to think I can handle things, and take whatever comes my way. Some call that strong. I now think it may be selfish. I could NOT have made it to the Summit without the help of my Team TARN family. When the backpack was so heavy and I felt unbalanced and unsure of the next step, someone would sense it and grab my pack. At first I wanted to say no, I am strong, but now I know that I needed that humbling and to accept help. Again, I could have NEVER made it up, without my team!
As I “scrambled” I thought about Mark with a pack on his back probably 15X heavier than mine, in 120 degree heat and a SMILE on his face. I thought about how much HE helped HIS friends, and now I am sure that they helped HIM, right back. It is humbling to know you can’t do something on your own. I have always relied on God’s hand in my life, and He surely was there with me on that mountain! Especially through my Team TARN family.
Another thing I learned, was how affected Mark’s sisters are by the loss of their baby brother. Watching Dylan’s face while his brother’s stone carrier spoke carried both pride and sorrow. I sometimes forget that I am not the only one hurting! And watching San relive the awful day he lost his friend, made me think of all of Mark’s brothers who still stay in touch with me…again….selfishly, I thought they were doing it for me, but I think now that they need to talk about Mark and their loss, too! Can’t wait to get some of his Marine brothers on a TSP hike!!!!
I now understand so much better the heartfelt letters I have received from others who have carried Mark’s stone and Mark’s story. I never quite knew how to respond to them
I thank each and everyone of you for doing what you do to keep the Fallen names, alive. MHANR
Martha Goyet
proud Mum of CPL Mark Goyet KIA 6/28/11
Dear Mark Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that he was a really good athlete and was known for his hugs and good sportsmanship.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain. We carried the stone to honor him and I felt honored carry the stone while we hiked the mountain.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities. One of the activities was we had to balance a water bottle with some string and wood and we had to balance it down on the ground and we did these activities for team work.
At the top of the summit, I saw the view of the rivers and the lake and everything in the area it was beautiful,we also ate lunch at the top and relaxed and shared about the soldier we studied, and we also took a picture at the top with everyone and a flag we made in class with our handprints on it.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel honored to carry the stone up the mountain for Mark because we wanted to honor so we carried a stone that was a memorial to him and we carried it up the mountain.
Sincerely,
Theo E-Y.
Dear Mark Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that he will always be remembered for for being amazing athlete, great hugger, super kind, and thoughtful. He was also a marine corporal, and many people loved him.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain. I know the stone meant a lot to you and your family, as it did throughout the day to me and my groups.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities. Some activities we did was we had to put a water bottle and a piece of wood with strings then lift it up and down. Another one was we had to close our eyes and make different shapes with yarn. One more is we had to make a song up about our day and record in front of the whole 6white team.(I was scared)
At the top of the summit the view was beautiful. I was so excited to be there! We took a āfewā photos at the summit with and without the rock. We were all so happy because after a long hike we FINALLY made it up.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel really amazing. It felt nice to be able to learn about an amazing person that has passed away in the marines. I am so so so so sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Jadyn E.
Dear Mark Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that Mark wanted to become an officer like his dad. And that he passed away on a Tuesday in Helmand Province in battle. We are sorry for your loss:(. It was like he was there with us the whole hike.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain. We carried the stone to honor Mark Goyet. We managed to carry the stone by switching off every 10 min.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities. #1 we did a writing activity were we wrote personalities on a small piece of paper and shared them to the group. #2 we had a piece of rope we all had to hold the rope and close our eyes and make shapes.(it was hard)#3 we did a balance game where we had to balance a water bottle on a piece of wood connected to pieces of string we had to hold the string and had to work together to move it up and down and side to side we were good at it.
At the top of the summit, we saw lake Winnipsaukee. It was amazing. I felt honored to do this for past veterans.
As I reflect back on this experience, some of my reflections were honored, happy, emotional, and thinking about our past veteran.
Sincerely,
Skylar.A
Dear Mark Goyet parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that he was a popular kid in high school and was really good at football and track. Mark Goyet is remembered for his smiles and his enjoyable laughs. I learned that he was born on April 23rd 1989 in Hampton Virginia and his hometown is Sinton Texas and died at the age of 22.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain. On are way up the mountain we all wanted to have the stone every 5 minutes up I would say can I carry the stone. Then when we were getting close to the top Ryan in my group wanted to climb up the rocky part/ steep part so I let him carry it up it was a work out but we did for a good reason.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities. Our first activity was to make a shape with our eyes closed it was a little hard but are group managed to pull it off. Our second activity was to write one trait about us and put in the middle to read to everyone then we chose five of them to help us get to the top of the summit. When we got to the top we ate lunch but we had to created a song before we got ice cream at Johnsons are song was not the best but it still was a song. Another activity was everyone got a string and we had to pull it all at the same time to make it straight and we had to take five steps over to get to another spot with out the water bottle tipping over and our last activity was to say our favorite thing about the trip mine was coming up with our song and looking at the view.
At the top of the summit, we had a phenomenal view and when we were done creating our song we took a picture of all of us and holding the flag with our hand prints on it making a flag there was another one of my favorites it was so fun holding the flag knowing that we did it for a soldier that risk his life to let us be free and learn so we honored him by hiking up the mountain with him and taking it seriously and respecting him.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel honored that he took time out of his day to go into war and let America be a free country so we honored him by taking time out of our day to hike with a soldier that risked their life for us. I had fun hiking with are group and hiking with Mark Goyet. I loved hiking with Mark Goyet it was a challenge but it was fun. Its an honor to hike with someone who really cared about our cares about our country like Mark Goyet and everyone else who help America be a better place today so thank Mark Goyetās parents.
Sincerely,
Ty C.
Dear Mark Goyet`s parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research I learned that Mark was a great athlete,and his home town was Sinton TX ,and his stone came from the woods at your house were Mark and his sister would play.We also learned he was remembered by his great hugs.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain.we carried the rock to honor our soldier since he risked his life for us. He was a burden on our trip so we would have an extra soldier.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities. The activities we did were challenging and were meant to be a group bond.
At the top of the summit, the view was really cool when I looked down it was very weird everything would move. It was cool when we gave the stone to another group it was like promoting him to another branch. Another activity that we did was talk about Mark and he sounded like a great person.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel accomplished my group only had 4 kids but with Mark`s stone made it 5 it was great.When my dad was deployed in 2011 for a year since he had to go to Afghanistan to go in war.
Sincerely,
Cam S.
Dear Mark R. Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark R. Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research I learned that he was a great athlete and loved sports. I also learned that he grew up in Sinton, Texas and he was born in Hampton, Virginia. Markās stone came from a pile of stones on his property in Westbrook, ME and was collected by his grandfather.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain. My group carried the stone up the mountain because we wanted to honor Markās life. His burden was to protect our country and now our burden is to carry his stone to the top of Mt. Major. When our group got the stone, we passed it from person to person until we reached the summit.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities. For one of the activities we had to write a trait of ourselves on a piece of paper, my trait was happy. Another activity my group did was balancing a water bottle on a piece of wood connected to a bunch of strings. Each person in my group holds a string to make a platform for the water bottle. I think we did these activities to get to know our group better, and so we could have small breaks as we hiked the mountain.
At the top of Mt. Major we took in the amazing view and then ate our lunch. Then our chaperones took a picture of the 6 White team holding our flag that we made with our handprints on a piece of fabric. We also wrote a song about our experience hiking Mt. Major. Then we headed down the mountain. The song was the fun time we had hiking Mt. Major. As we hiked down we talked about our favorite parts of the trip.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel happy that we got to participate in the summit project and grateful that we were able to honor Mark R. Goyetās life by carrying his stone up Mt. Major
Sincerely,
Maggie C.
Dear Mark Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that your son was an outstanding learner and was always able to make someone feel better.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain. Why we carried the stone is to honor your son for risking his life for to keep this country safe.How we shared the rock is we went by groups and each group would got to have the rock and carry the rock on our journy up the mountain to the Summit.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities. The first activity we did was we did a rope game where we to make different shapes with our group.The second activity we did was a paper where we had to write about are personality.The third activity we did was a bottle game were my group had to lower a bottle with a rope.The last activity we did was make a song on how our trip was.
At the top of the summit,I saw the amazing view and a ship going down the nearest river and the next group got to carry the rock down the mountain.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel honor that my school Marshwood Middle school got to have the rock and carry it up the Summit and we got to learn everything about you son.
Sincerely,
Gavin B.
Dear Mark Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that Mark died in the Helmand province of Afghanistan at age 22. I also learned that Mark was born in Hampton, Virginia on April 23, 1989, and lived in Sinton, Texas for most of his life, and graduated from Sinton High school in 2007. We learned that Mark excelled at basketball, football, tennis and track. We also learned that Mark will be remembered for joyful smile and warm hugs.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain. We carried the stone up the mountain to honor Markās service to our country. We also carried Markās stone up the mountain also to learn the burden of being a soldier. We shared this burden by passing the rock around our hiking groups, and taking turns carrying Markās stone.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities. These activities included taking a rope and trying to make certain shapes without talking or looking, writing down one important trait about yourself and how that could help our hiking group on the hike. Some others included composing a song about our experience on the mountain, moving a water bottle on a board using strings tied through holes in the board, and picking our favorite animal, and lining up in order from largest to smallest, only by acting, and making noises like your animal.
At the summit we saw almost all of Lake Winnipesaukee, Lizard Island, which I thought was pretty cool, and a bunch of other small islands scattered throughout the lake. I felt content for finally reaching the top. I also felt proud of myself for climbing up all the steep part of the mountain, and astonished by the view at the top. After we ate lunch, we transferred the stone to another group so they could bring it down the mountain.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel honored to have carried Markās stone so far, thankful for being able to go hike up Mt. Major, and joyful because I had so much fun.
Sincerely,
Ryan P.
Dear Mark Goyet parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that he was a star high school athlete and grew up in Texas. Also he was kind to others.He served one tour in Iraq as a mortarman. He was in a dangerous assignment in Afghanistan when he was killed. He was a brave soldier.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain.We did it so we would remember his honor for protecting us. Students passed the stone to others in our group during different parts of the hike to help share the weight and reflect on Markās life.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities, We wrote on paper about our personalities and shared them with our group.We also made shapes with a rope while our eyes were closed. We did this to see what it was like going into unknown situations.
At the top of the summit, we raised the flag of the U.S.A to honor the Veterans who served us. I felt really good about doing this because it will remind me about those who served us. The view was awesome! I could see a beautiful sight from the top and it made me
As I reflect back on this experience, I felt really good about this because when I grow up I want to be a police officer. I will remember those who served our country, especially your son Mark.
Sincerely,
Owen L
Dear Mark Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that Mark was deployed in Afghanistan and passed away there as well. We also learned that Mark was a great athlete in high school. Lastly we learned that you picked the stone for Mark from where he used to go on runs, and that the rock was from the pile of rocks that his grandfather stacked while mowing the area.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain. The reason that we did this was to honor Mark and the other veterans. Also we did this so that these men were not forgotten. When we were climbing the mountain with the rock we would pass it around to every member of our group after they had their turn carrying the stone. And even though this was hard work I fought through it. I did this by remembering that Mark and the other soldiers had done things while being deployed that were 10 times harder than just carrying a rock.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities. Such as coming up with a song about our trip and Mark, and balancing a bottle on a piece of rope. We did these activities to build teamwork. While we were doing these I wondered if Mark had done things with his team to build teamwork.
At the top of the summit, The view was incredible. It was amazing seeing all of the trees changing color and the lake in the background. I felt so proud when I finally reached the top and was so tired I instantly just laid down on my back. I wondered if in Afghanistan Mark had to go on long walks like this all day and everyday.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel inspired by Markās bravery and strength. I am glad that we did this project and that we learned about Mark and his life. I think about how amazing Mark must have been as a person and a soldier. I bet that you guys are very proud of your son and all of his accomplishments. I also remember learning about how much of an amazing athlete Mark was in high school. Lastly I think that Mark was a great person and he deserves to be remembered.
Sincerely,
Graden
Dear Mark Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that Mark was the man who always would keep you happy, he would never leave anyone behind, not anyone! I also learned that he would always be happy himself. He was very nice,caring,thoughtful, and trustworthy.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain, and to share his story, we passed the rock to one another as we went up.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities that explained teamwork to help us climb. It was showing us how we should be safe going up the mountain. It really showed us how to keep ourselves safe. And Mark did the same as we did. Some activities were making a shape with a rope, and writing down our own personalities.
At the top of the summit, I felt proud, because not only did I make it, I did it for Mark. We did the things I think he would do for us, and we did the same for him. And thatās the kind of thing that a guy like Mark would do, and that makes me really proud. And I hope that he was proud too.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel happy that i did this for Mark, he did everything he could to save our country. And I would do the same for him. You know, thatās something everybody should feel during the day, and the night. People should feel that they are important as Mark Goyet.
Sincerely,
Tommy B.
Dear Mark Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that Mark was the man who always would keep you happy, he would never leave anyone behind, not anyone! I also learned that he would always be happy himself. He was very nice,caring,thoughtful, and trustworthy.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain, and to share his story, we passed the rock to one another as we went up.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities that explained teamwork to help us climb. It was showing us how we should be safe going up the mountain. It really showed us how to keep ourselves safe. And Mark did the same as we did. Some activities were making a shape with a rope, and writing down our own personalities.
At the top of the summit, I felt proud, because not only did I make it, I did it for Mark. We did the things I think he would do for us, and we did the same for him. And thatās the kind of thing that a guy like Mark would do, and that makes me really proud. And I hope that he was proud too.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel happy that i did this for Mark, he did everything he could to save our country. And I would do the same for him. You know, thatās something everybody should feel during the day, and the night. People should feel that they are important as Mark Goyet.
Sincerely,
Tommy B.
Dear Mark Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that he was known for his lovable warm hugs and caring heart. I also learned that he was very successful and also a talented athlete. Mark was a Marine Lance Corporal and said he was a Texian at heart.āHe was kind of a guy who would take people under his wing. He was a very popular guy, a very thoughtful guy.ā I learned he passed away in Helmand province Afghanistan, June 28, 2011. This upcoming April he would have turned 27.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark as well as a summary of his life on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way up the mountain. We carried this rock because not only do we want to remember those brave heroes, but we want to give back to those who have been fighting for our country’s freedom. We also want to honor them and give back for what they have done for us, that is why the 6th grade decided to have the honor to do the Summit project. My group carried the rock on the way down which was handed off to us from another group. From then on our group carried till we reached the end of the trail.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities. One of the activities that we did, was we had to close our eyes and make a variety of shapes with a piece of rope. This required us have communication and to work together as a team. Our second group activity, was we had to write down 6 character traits to describe ourselves. This group activity made us get to know the people in our group more.The last activity that we did, was we had to make up our own song saying what we did on our field trip in order to get ice cream at the end. Unfortunately we did not get to perform ours in time but we still got ice cream and performed ours later in the week.
At the top of the summit, the view was absolutely amazing! You could almost see everything in front of you. At the top it viewed the glimmering lake Winnipesaukee and the trees were all different colors. It felt so amazing when we made it to the top because you felt so accomplished and happy that you hiked all the way up. As our group headed down with the rock we kept Markās memories with us.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel happy that we gave back for those heroes that risked their lives for us. If you stop and think about our field trip, it was really not about the ice cream we got after, it was really about honoring our heroes not only for us but for our country. Sometimes we forget to be grateful for what we have, I was doing my homework one night and and i was really stressed about it and thought that my life was really hard compared to everybody else. Now I realize my life so easy compared to these brave people and their parents. Imagining your child going to a very dangerous place and thinking you may never see them again. Then the people fighting for us thinking they may never see their friends and family again. That is the whole reason why we did the summit project, to think about them and remember them. When we reached the top of that mountain it was like they were smiling upon us and saying thankyou. We will always remember Mark and what he did for us, he will always be with us.
Sincerely,
Addie
Dear Mark Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. On October 11th, my classmates and I honored the late veteran Mark Goyet by carrying a memorial stone in his honor as we hiked Mt. Major on a field trip.
Before climbing, we researched Markās life. In my research, I learned that he was an absolute wonderful person who was an amazing athlete in sports and being kind to others as well.
On the day of the hike, we attached a picture of Mark, as well as a summary of his life, on to our backpacks so we could keep him in mind throughout our day. We also carried the memorial stone the entire way down the mountain. I carried the rock all the way down the mountain. It was a huge impact on my emotions for Mark. My group and I really appreciated Markās service in the military, it really takes lots of courage to join the military. We are thankful for his service and were very happy that he had a good life.
As we climbed, we participated in group activities. During our little activities on the hike we took a few minutes to write down a few things about ourselves so we knew more about one another. Then we had to make shapes with rope when our eyes were closed that was a challenge we did these so my group could get to know each other better also for teamwork . Then we had the most important one, we made a song about the hike also about Markās service as respect to him.
At the top of the summit, we ate lunch in the relaxing sun with a cool breeze remembering Mark for his service in the military. Then all students on the hike stood in a photo with all of the soldier’s stones including Markās stone with a big American flag made with colored students hand prints. It was a time remember and mourn the soldiers who gave the ultimate sacrifice to give The United States of America free to every single American in this beautiful country of ourās. We couldn’t have had freedom without our soldiers like your son Mark. We are grateful he gave the sacrifice to let us be free.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel grateful for his service as a marine and wished he was still here so I could thank him. Thank you Mark for being a soldier to keep us safe. Also just the fact I get to go hiking with my school with a great reason for it is just a wonder thing to know you did. So thank you for taking the time to read about my group and Iās time on the hike for the summit project on Mark.
Sincerely,
Dylan
Dear Mark Goyetās parents,
I am a sixth grade student at Marshwood Middle School in Eliot, Maine. I had the privilege of carrying Markās stone for the summit project, and I am very grateful that I had the opportunity to respect him and learn about his life. On October 11th my classmates and I hiked Mt. Major in honor of your son.Your son was a great man, brave, strong, and respected. You were very lucky to have him as a son.
In the weeks before the hike, my class and I researched Mark and his wonderful accomplishments. Mark was not just a soldier, he was many things before that. He was once your little boy, who turned into a fantastic man. During the time I learned about him
I learned that he played football, basketball, tennis, and track. He was kind and lit up the room when he walked in. He was an athlete, a son, a friend, a soldier, and probably much more. In the Nahr-E Saraj district of the Helmand Province in Afghanistan, Mark was killed while serving his country. War is wrong, it is an awful thing and should never happen, but unfortunately in this imperfect world it does.
When we hiked, my grade put pictures of Mark and a short summary about his life on our backpacks, so we could remember the challenges he face, and so that we could keep him in our hearts and in our minds throughout the day. I had the pleasure of carrying Markās stone, it reminds me of the burdens Mark had to face. I now know just how much perseverance he must have had.
At the top of the summit, my friends and I took pictures of the beautiful views. I wonder if Mark sees views like that at the moment, could he go where ever he wants, and see all the sights this world has to hold? Maybe even right now Mark is looking down on you reading this letter, and is filled with pride by knowing that many people appreciate his ultimate sacrifice. The views were incredible, the foliage, the water and the little people in their little lives, doing little things, all trying to pitch in to make Marks goal a reality. A beautiful country. A country without war, and death, and the unfairness and cruelty of life.
As I reflect back on this experience, I feel proud that I could have the chance of doing something far bigger than I am, the task of honoring the fallen men and women that have risked life and limb, to protect our country. I am so lucky to have had the chance to learn about your son and his great legacy. Thank you so much for raising such a great man. I am sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Lydia
To the Goyet family,Markās friends and relatives,
On 20November2016, I had the privilege to lead a team of 8 hikers in Bradbury Mountain State Park. Since we hiked the park boundary in a clockwise manner, I named us Team CLOCKWISE. The team was made up of one 3rd year Midshipman from the US Naval Academy, two of his brothers and a group of five experienced TSP hikers.
I was honored to carry CPL Mark Raymond Goyetās memorial stone on this hike. As I picked it up for the first time that day, I felt a sense of solidarity and comfort with that heavy stone. I also realized the significance in the fact that it was selected from land in Westbrook, which had family ties reaching back nearly 250 years. That history seemed like a sign of stability and continuity that resonated with me, and I was glad to have Markās stone on-board in my pack.
As we hiked the perimeter of the park on that cool, rainy morning, we held conversations in attempts to get to know each other, and to learn more about our respective heroes. I got several chances to share what I had learned as I researched Markās life. What struck me was a theme of stability, loyalty and duty. Mark died in combat in 2011, after volunteering to return to Afghanistan because he knew that the battles ahead would require experienced Marines, and that he could provide that experience and help to his brothers. When I consider that high degree of loyalty and sense of duty, I find it to be very humbling. I was also impressed that Mark showed a big smile in nearly every photo I found on the internet. That suggested that he loved what he was doing, and that he loved life.
About half a mile from the summit, Team CLOCKWISE met up with the other hike team and we made our way to the top of this small mountain. As we got closer, the rain began to diminish and the clouds were being pushed out. It was a funny feeling to realize that I had not felt a heaviness from my pack with Markās stone. There was no doubt that it was a hefty one as I put it into my pack before the hike, but Iām concluding that his character strengths of duty, loyalty and team work were shared with me and others to help to keep the teamās mood light during the hike.
It was a privilege and an honor to spend some time learning more about Mark, and to carry his hero stone. As I mentioned to the other hikers in our circle ceremony that day, Markās sense of loyalty, honor and Team were with us. I will keep sharing Markās story with people that I meet, and I will consistently try to show his character strengths in my interactions with my work teams going forward. Iām also going to show more BIG smiles to the people I interact with. And Iāll keep digging until I find out the story behind āOinkā.
With gratitude and respect,
Russ Shoberg (Sensei)
I had the honor and privilege to carry the story and the stone of Marine Cpl. Mark R. Goyet. Markās stone was part of a first time trek for TSP at BSP. 2017 is the first year that a group summited Baxter peak on Mount Katahdin at this event. A lot of things had to fall in line for this hike to even happen. Most importantly, over 2 feet of snow needed to melt just 2 weeks out from Memorial Day weekend. Somehow all the stars aligned and all the snow melted and the trail opened up. Not only that but the weather conditions we had couldnāt have been better.
Backing up a little to the fall of 2016. I had the honor of leading a wonderful team up Cadillac Mountain in ANP. There was a lot of busy work that took place weeks before the hike as the team lead but Major Dave taught me well that once you leave base camp, everything needs to slow down and we need to remember why we are there on that day. So once the bus pushed off and our team was safety on our way, I turned the switch off and tried to be more present. It wasnāt 5 minutes into the ride before I noticed a beautiful smile sitting across from me. Her name was Martha and she was actually on my team that day but we never met prior to the event. Martha your smile was contagious and really set the tone for our team that day. Spending the day with you and watching you carry Markās stone was an honor and privilege for me and the rest of the group. Multiple times along the way, I would notice you stop and just enjoy the moment. Youād look out onto the ocean and smile. I know Iāve already shared this with you but the photo that Lenny caught of us sitting down together and looking back at what we just climbed, is a picture and moment I will always cherish.
When it was time to start planning for TSP at BSP 2017 months ago, I sent Major Dave an email immediately requesting Markās stone. I knew that if TSP was going up Mount Katahdin for the first time, Markās stone had to be there. In the time leading up to the weekend, I cannot imagine what you and your family were feeling. I canāt imagine each day but I really appreciated our emails and learning even more about Mark. Iāll never forget when we were on top of Cadillac MT and you shared the story about the last photo taken of Mark. It was in that moment, I realized that was the same picture I had on my desk at work. You had mailed 2 copies to the Boys & Girls Club after coordinating my first TSP event in February of 2016. That picture is still sitting on my desk and I see it every day.
On the night before our BSP hike, I saw Aunt Linda down by the lake, looking at the sunset behind Mount Katahdin. I had met Linda and Misty at the Boys & Girls Club for TSP and also seen them around at other events. Linda your heart couldnāt be bigger and getting to know you and Misty more, has been truly wonderful. Thank you for sharing new stories of Mark from your perspective. I hope someday I get the opportunity to meet the rest of Markās family. Your stories, Marthaās stories and the stories from other hikers who carried Markās stone in the past left me more than ready to accomplish our goal.
But at the end of the day, the goal isnāt just about carrying someoneās stone up the tallest mountain. Itās keeping their memory alive and sharing their story. Yes, we made it to the top and back down safety but the time in between is what matters. Over this long and tiring day, you couldnāt wipe the smile off my face. Why? Because you instructed me to enjoy every day that we are given and just smile. So I did. I the weight of his stone in my pack and thought of all the stories I heard about Mark and smiled all the up the mountain and all the way down. I also made sure to stop along the way and just enjoy special moments.
Carrying someoneās stone isnāt about us but sometimes you canāt prevent some outcomes. Your family has taught me some valuable life lessons and I hope that I can pass them onto my daughter. I promise to be more present and treat each day as a gift. I can also promise you that my smile isnāt going anywhere. So this Thanksgiving, instead of just sitting in front of the TV the whole time watching football, Iāll be in the kitchen with family peeling the potatoes in Markās honor.
I was honored and privileged to carry the stone and story of my son Corporal Mark Goyet, USMC. This was my first TSP at BSP and rest assured I will never forget the wonderfully emotional rollercoaster that I rode throughout the weekend. I am blessed to have made so many new life-long friends, Team White members, Betsy, and Ranger Mike Winslow to name just a few. I have to specifically thank the Justins (Cloukey and Proctor) and Andrea āRedā Perley Cox who provided me the much-needed support I required in order for me to be able to complete the climb up/down The Owl.
Although the weight of Markās stone was heavy, it pales in comparison to the grief and guilt that I carry with me each and every moment of every passing day. Iāll try to explain my comment.
Mark enlisted in the USMC for two reasons: one, was his sense of patriotism and duty to his country; and two, was to use his GI Bill to go to the University of Florida to earn a Bachelorās Degree. After earning his degree, he fully intended to join the US Navy as an officer. Mark called me in February of 2011 and told me he was considering volunteering to deploy to Afghanistan with 3/4., who was in need of volunteers. Mark had already deployed twice (Iraq and the 31st MEU) during his enlistment and had just returned from deployment the month prior. I immediately asked him why he would want to deploy with less than nine months remaining on his enlistment, and he told me that he felt a sense of obligation to his brother Marines who had deployed to Afghanistan and had either been KIA or returned home disabled. His rationale for deploying spoke to Markās character at its core (loyalty, devotion, dedication, etc.) and was an almost impossible argument to challenge. To this day, I wonder that if I had strongly challenged his argument if the outcome would have been differentā¦ā¦ā¦.
Sharing my stories of Mark with Team White during the āCircleā on the summit was truly a much-needed cathartic experience for me. I cannot adequately express the depth of my gratitude to Team White for their compassion and support.
With Much Respect,
Captain Ray Goyet, USN, (Ret.)
Gold Star Father
Goyet Family,
I have been reading through the comments above and they inspire and motivate me in a way that can not be measured. Mr. Goyet, your words speak volumes about the kind of man your son was, and being there when you shared meant the world to me. I took those moments we all shared at BSP with me when I summited Cadillac Mt. The stone is indeed heavy, but it seemed to get lighter as we ascended. As if my thoughts were becoming more clear and the burden of sadness that comes with losing a loved one was being shared with all the members of the team. Mark Goyet was a fine looking young man and I am certain that his upbringing made him beautiful on the inside where it counts.
A life is not wasted if it is spent with those that you love. Mark felt he had to be there with the ones he loved. His brothers in arms may not have been blood related but he took care of them, as he would his family. There is no regret to be had.
I have reflected upon my own life, and that is what I feel will let me continue to honor Mark. In the days ahead I will share about what we do here at The Summit Project. I will share about Mark, and the heroes that never make it home. It was an honor to carry the stone of a man that died in defense of country. He is a true hero and Maine Heroes Are Not Forgotten.
Dear Goyet Family,
I had the honor of carrying Mark’s stone on a trek hosted by the Maine Turnpike Authority where the honor case is currently set up. I feel like it wasn’t by chance that I was given his stone. Leading up to the trek I was reading about Mark and I learned that he enlisted in the Marines on February 25, 2008 — which was my 28th birthday. Your son was signing up to protect all of our freedoms on a day that I was celebrating my birthday. It was a reminder to me of how lucky we are in America to have people like Mark that are willing to give everything to their country so the rest of us can live freely. Mark was so loyal and selfless that he was willing to volunteer for that second combat tour. I am so sorry he did not make it home. He was an amazing man, at such a young age. I am so thankful that the Summit Project exists for us to keep these heroes honor alive. I will never forget USMC Corporal Mark Goyet.
To the family of Mark Goyet,Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā It was an honor to carry Mark’s stone. I served 22 years in the Marine Corp. I wont tell you it has not opened a lot of wounds because it has. I have done over 50 military funerals for my Marine brothers. I have lost Marines in combat. I feel the pain. My feelings are buried deep. I have been with the Summit Project since the start. I too was stationed at the 1st Marine Division Camp Pedleton. So it hit home. Marines are a brotherhood. Cpl Mark Goyet will never be forgotten. Like I said it was an honor.Ā Semper Fi GYSGTĀ W. E. Godfrey Retired
To the loving family of Mark Goyet,
Over Memorial Day Weekend, I had the privilege of carrying CPL Mark Goyetās Memorial Stone on two different treks within the state. Mark was an extraordinary person in everyoneās eyes and was truly a character to be around. I had the opportunity to learn more about Mark through his mother; Martha Goyet and sister; Jenna Cordy. Mark was born on April 23, 1989 in Virginia into a Military family. They eventually moved to Florida in his early stages of life before settling in Texas for most of his teen years. Mark was an outgoing child growing up and always knew how to give the best hugs. He grew up participating in numerous sports, most times only doing it to be with friends. He grew to love each sport he played and was talented enough to make it States and Regionals for certain ones. He was truly an amazing person to be around and I have the privilege of being graced with his story that I get to share with everyone I meet.
Mark is without a doubt someone that has changed my life for the better and Iāll be thankful for him every day. He grew up putting others before himself and always caring for his friends and family. Martha told me numerous stories and occasions of Mark helping out his friends. He did simple acts of kindness such as bringing in his friends to live with him when they got kicked out to gambling in a Casino in Las Vegas to win money to give a fellow Marine who didnāt have the funds to travel home to his family. Those are just two examples that show how considerate Mark was.
He was a handsome man and a prominent ladies man as well. Iāve heard multiple stories, but one that stuck out was told by his sister Jenna. Mark as previously stated was an athletic kid, and one year his family along with two family friends participated in Beach to Beacon. It was a relay-style race that every participant ran a set leg for however many miles were required. As his sister was approaching Marks Leg she recalled not finding him anywhere so she ran a couple extra yards than decided to turn back and find him. She then spotted Mark talking to a girl and yelled at him to get the Baton, in the end Mark got the girls number and he ran his leg of the race.
Along with all those traits Mark was the type to follow in his dads footsteps. His end goal was to be able go back to college and then return back into the Military to become a Commissioned Officer in the Marine Corps like his father has done in the Navy. His dad has served 38 years in the Navy and he wanted to make the same impact. About 9 months left of his time in the Military his Sister Unit returned from Afghanistan many of his friends being in that unit came back with many missing limbs. He already did his requirement of two prior deyployments, and wanted to do one last one. He knew his friends weren’t able to and wanted to do this in honor of them. Unfortunately a few weeks in he was shot and killed while securing a small village and passing away on June 28, 2011.
I couldnāt image losing a son, brother, or friend and definitely not one as good as Mark. He has taught me to always push forward and to do the right thing. He is the definition of āill take a bullet for youā. He was always caring and had a smile on his face. My dad; Greg Johnson is the creator of the Husky Ruck Memorial 10k which is a 6.2 mile ruck held here in Maine. At the end of there is an obstacle course we call the crucible and all the money raised goes into a Scholarship in his name at USM for Veterans. Little acts of kindness wether rucking these 6 miles today in Bangor, participating in the Husky Ruck, or Rucking the 8 miles in Portland that I did yesterday all go towards honoring his name. I strive to be half the person he is in my lifetime. Mark Goyet will forever hold a place in my heart, and I hope to spread his story.
To the Family of Mark Goyet:
I served in the Marine Corps Infantry, 3/6 Marines Kilo Co. in Afghanistan (’04) and Iraq (’05-’06). I had the honor of carrying Mark’s stone recently. During the hike I thought about patrolling in the mountains of Afghanistan and I thought about the good Marines I served with over there, so many different types and personalities and that bond of brotherhood you feel and the trust you have in each other. I kept looking at the photo you provided of Mark and that great smile. I read about how having already deployed to Iraq and on duty overseas he volunteered to go to Afghanistan; he wanted to be there for his fellow Marines and learning that really made me feel love for him and a deep deep appreciation for his service and sacrifice for our country and his commitment to his fellow Marines.
I was a weapons platoon guy and I saw that he was a mortarman, at least for his first deployment, which means he was smart, good with numbers, and able to think quickly under pressure. I wish I’d had the opportunity to serve with him. I wanted to let you know that as I learned about Mark, I felt proud of him and I felt reassured being reminded of the good men and women who step up to serve America. I also felt so grateful for his sacrifice and yours. Thinking of that put a lump in my throat. I lost good friends in both countries but I don’t know what that weight you carry having lost Mark is like. Please know that Marines like myself will continue to honor Mark’s memory and take pride in knowing that he was one of us, which also makes you a part of our Marine family.
Semper Fi
Dear Goyet Family,
I would like to introduce myself and my connection to TSP. My name is Ivana and I had the honor to carry Markās Tribute Stone to the summit of Cadillac Mountain during this yearās event at ANP. I have been introduced to TSP during our Memorial Day Weekend mission called Ruck to Remember [60to60] in 2019. I felt an instant connection to TSP, so when I was asked, 1 year later, to honor Maine heroes once again, it was a āStrong Yesā. Even though the world came to a slow STOP this year, we all knew, the mission of honor and remembrance must go on. We were able to create Outpost in many States during our Memorial Day Weekend mission 2020, and Our MA Outpost was honored to carry 14 Main Heroes this year.
When traveling to Maine to collect the Stones for our MA Outpost, I met Gregā¦ I had no idea; my life was about to change. There was an instant connection again and after our Memorial Day Weekend mission was completed, and few texts later, I was invited to join TSP at ANP event this September. That is when I finally āmetā Mark. š
I did the usual āinternetā research to learn as much as I could, but something was missingā¦ I knew his āstoryā, but I did not know him. So, I asked Greg for a āfamily connectionsā and I got to āmeetā Marthaā¦ Markās mom. She was so so amazing when sharing his life with me and the more I learned about Mark, the more I understood why HIM, why HIS Stone. š (Thank you so Very Much Martha.)
Markās Stone was meant to be for āmeā indeed. Learning about him, brought back so many childhood memories of my own, I have buried years agoā¦ learning about his kitties and horses and laughing at some of the storiesā¦ was like Mark was trying to make me laugh and bring me back to life. I started believing, that as much as this was about Mark, his Life and carrying his Memory onā¦ he helped me remember āmeā. I made sure, that every time we stopped, and every view we saw, that would take our breath awayā¦ to take his Stone out and show him the Beauty around us. Yes, this year might have been challenging for our Country in so many ways, but as long as we take another Step, as long as we Remember, as long as we Honorā¦ Maine Heroes Will Never Be Forgotten and they will Always have Mountains to Climb and People to āsaveā. Mark, Thank YOU for everything YOU have done for me this year.
Forever Grateful and I will always remember these two things:
1. āFirst of all, there are no coincidencesā¦ā (Thank you Martha)
2. āThe Stone Chooses YOU.ā (Thank you TSP)
Iāll see you soonā¦ š
To The Family of Mark Goyett,
I had the absolute honor and privilege of carrying Markās tribute stone during the Ruck to Remember event in Portland, Maine on May 30, 2021. This was the first time that I participated in The Summit Project and it was a truly remarkable experience. With this years TSP event being virtual I was able to participate in both TSP and the Ruck to Remember. Every mile that we rucked I felt the weight of the stone and was reminded of the sacrifice Mark made for our country.
I was able to connect with Martha, Markās mom, and it was touching to hear stories about Mark. Hearing about him gave me insight into what an truly amazing and caring person Mark was.
During the 16 mile ruck I was able to connect with some incredible people and also share in remembering others who have made the ultimate sacrifice. As Greg Johnson said at the end of the ruck āa soldier is only forgotten when their name stops being spokenā. We spoke the names of all the individuals with tribute stones and shared their stories. When turning in Markās stone I felt the weight of those words and made sure to speak and continue to speak Markās name and share his story. I felt I was able to make a deep connection with all of the stories. All of us that participated in the even laughed together and cried together as we remembered. I will never forget this experience I want to thank your entire family for your sacrifice.
Thank you so much for this experience to connect with not only Mark, but your family.
Sincerely,
Lynn Walker
Hi
My name is Lori Wessel and I live in Blue Hill. I am 58 years old and have been a special education teacher for 37 years. I teach at George Stevens Academy in Blue Hill. Up until 6 years ago, hiking was not on my radar. Once I started, I havenāt stopped. I love it. I have hiked most all of the mountains in Acadia Park. I have also, a huge accomplishment for me, hiked Mt. Katahdin twice, this last time in August.
This is my first Summit Project and I am beyond excited to be a part of this. I want to honor Mark and his contribution to make our lives better. I love the story of how the family chose the rock I will carry in Markās memory. My husband and family is a stone mason family. Both my husband and son use granite for art pieces. This is a nice connection for me.
As I hike with this precious rock, I will spend time reflecting on all of Markās sacrifices, your want of keeping his memory alive and the commitment that goes in to this project.
From reading about Mark, it sounds like he was a beautiful young man with so much to give. To have the want to go back for a third tour, shows what a dedicated man he was.
Thank you for allowing me to be part of Markās story. I feel honored and will do my best to keep his story alive.
It was nothing short of incredible being able to carry Mark’s stone at Acadia National Park in September. As I was thinking, a few weeks before the hike, what a nice thing to do for a deserving soldier. I had no idea, ever, what it really meant to participate in such a wonderful and emotional tribute. My dad was in the Marines and was always so very proud of his time while serving.
Even though the weather didn’t cooperate, and we didn’t get to climb, the walk was wonderful. Every time I stepped over a root or rock, I could feel Mark’s stone in my back pack and it made me proud to be part of his ongoing adventure. To have been so dedicated to serve- and to not come home has been on my mind a lot these past weeks. As a mother, I can’t imagine. To know, when he goes away to do what he loves, that he may not be back, not only makes him a hero, but you parents as well. Thank you for allowing him to do what he wanted to do.
The rock itself was beautiful: heavy, purposeful and full of stories. As I held it and spoke of Mark, it felt warm in my hands. I felt like he was truly there smiling on our group as we told stories of the heroes we spoke about. The sun came out for a few moments, and it was then that I knew- he knew we were there honoring him. What an honor.
Know how this impacted me- and I am nothing short of inspired by what I know of his short life. A true hero.
all my best,
Lori Wessel
To the family of Mark Goyet,Ā Ā
It was an honor and privilege to carry Markās stone with me up the North Ridge trail to the summit of Cadillac Mountain in Acadia National Park.
We were hiking in the tail end of a hurricane, so it was a windy day. As we hiked, I adjusted my Red Sox hat, tightening it up against the wind. I know that Mark was a big Boston sports fan and I wore the hat for him; there was no way I was going to let it blow off!
Martha, you asked me to keep an eye out for heart shaped rocks and I saw so many all weekend, especially on the trail. I told my team about why I had my eye out for hearts and everyone commented on them and pointed them out on the way up. We saw them everywhere.
As I hiked, in my mindās eye, I saw his big, warm smile and felt his steady presence. I thought about how I could be more generous, brighten up peopleās days, and bring light to any situation, like Mark would have done.
When we reached the summit, we formed a circle and pulled out our stones. His stone was smooth and heavy and felt just right in my lap. As I ran my hand over the stone, I told my team about Markās sense of duty, his giving spirit, his big bear hugs, and shared some of his stories. I made sure to give out as many bear hugs as I could.
The connection that comes from carrying a stone is something that I struggle to put into words. Mark was with me on that hike, and he is still with me today. He will always be with me. I will continue to give out the best bear hugs I can muster, search for heart shaped rocks, and try to brighten peopleās days with a big smile.
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share Markās story, it was truly an honor.
I was the corpsman that treated Mark in Afghanistan, i really wish there was more i could have done, he really was a great person, Marine, friend. I will never stop fighting for what Mark fought for.
I am a member of the Veteran Employee Business Resource Group at LL Bean, Inc, Freeport, ME. I was honored to meet Mark’s family and further honored to hike with him at Winslow Park in Freeport. We had a glorious day for a hike, almost as glorious as Mark’s smile. At the last moment, one of our carriers couldn’t come and Mark and I brought along another Marine’s Stone to remember. The weight I carried was nothing compared to what Mark and Andrew’s families must face on a daily basis. While hiking, I took some time to be with others, and then be with only Mark and Andrew. My mantra was, thank you for your service, thank you for your sacrifice. We all have to remember, Freedom isn’t Free.
To the family of Marine Corporal Mark Goyet, as I said when we met at The Summit Project, sorry for your loss of Mark. But Thank-you for sharing him and his sacrifice with the Summit Project so that others such as myself can learn about how great of a man he was. The stone assignment from the Summit Project side was simple enough. However unknown to others is the fact I preferred a Marine, because my son is a Marine. So imagine my surprise when not only was a Marine chosen, but one that came from my hometown as well. Those odds of happening seem pretty high, but here it was , Corporal Goyet had been assigned to me. Sometimes you just can’t explain these things , they just happen.
As part of learning about Corporal Goyet, I see he truly was a leader and inspired those around him. His decision to go back into harms way to help his fellow Marines, shows just how much of a true leader he was. Courage is doing what’s difficult and what we would rather not have to do, but we do it anyway. I see in Corporal Goyet’s family where he got his courage from. His legacy has been built upon and created a purposeful foundation to help and inspire others to follow in Corporal Goyet’s beliefs. I Thank all for the opportunity of learning and will continue to tell Corporal Goyet’s story.
To the family of Mark Goyet,
It was an amazing honor to be able to carry his tribute stone on this years Ruck for the Fallen. It hit close to home for me because I was also in the Marine Corps and stationed in Twentynine Palms. Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to carry the tribute stone. Mark is a true hero.
Dear Goyet Family,
On September 21st I had the honor and the privilege to carry Mark’s stone and story as part of Team Red up Cadillac Mountain in Acadia National Park.
Martha, I want to thank you so much for taking the time to talk with me and share the story of your son. I felt like I was talking with an old friend. I hope to meet you in person someday soon.
Hearing all the details of Mark’s life made me sad that I had not known him in life. Such a kind and loving soul with a gentle spirt, zest for life, and a love of family, friends, and God.
Having hiked numerous TSP hikes over the years I always worry about not doing my hero justice in telling the story of their life and how they lived at the share. Today was no different.
We started the day bright and early and headed to base camp at Smugglers Den Campground and we’re greated by friends that I now call family with some of the most AMAZING hugs. Something Mark was known for and loved to do. He would have felt right at home among the hugs and warm smiles.
We were soon loaded onto our busses with out teams and were off to the trail heads. It was a beautiful and peaceful fall day and as the hike started I could feel the weight of Mark’s stone in my pack reminding me he was there. Knowing it was nothing compared to the weight the family had carried since Mark’s passing. The though of losing a family member so tragically and so young is beyond bearable.
I hiked along worrying about how the sharing of Mark’s story would go at the circle ceremony. Having done this numerous times before I know that they never go as planned. How does one capture how amazing a life was in such a short time? I never feel it’s enough.
About half way through the hike I spotted a heart shaped stone. I had been quietly searching for a sign. Now I had one and two more appeared before we reached the summit. I knew it was going to be “ok” and that Mark’s story would take the shape it needed to….not the one that I had rehearsed.
I reflected on several of the stories of Mark that his mom had shared with me. The story of Justin, a childhood friend that Mark had watched over and now how that had come full circle with Justin returning to watch over Mark’s family.
The unselfish act of Mark volunteering for a deployment that he did not need to go on with another unit full of soldiers he did not know. Doing it because he felt he had to for friends he had lost and others that had come home missing limbs.
A top notch hugger. Someone that could make anything funny with a beautiful smile. The glue that held everyone together in life and in death. A friend for life. A man who made his mark at life and was happy with who he was as a person.
Thank you for you service and sacrifice Marine Cpl. Mark R. Goyet.
I will carry your name and your story in my heart from this day forward.
Amy